1. The cafeteria lady asks if I work here and qualify for a discount.
2. Nurses and doctors on other floors and different units come up to us and ask "Aren't you the couple who is getting married?"
3. Nurses and aids feel the freedom to hug to me when I am crying.
4. I know more about the nurses lives than my family and friends lives.
5. I begin to drawl out my words and pick up the kentucky accent.